Posts for .Freelancedom


How to Play the Waiting Game Just Right

From Freelancedom
May 16, 2012 at 12:44 pm
Right now, I’m waiting for my attorney to call me back. I’m waiting for him to tell me that my husband and I are out of attorney review on the house we bid on, so that ... (more)

How To Achieve Full-Time Success with Part-Time Hours

From Freelancedom
May 8, 2012 at 10:30 am
Forget grad school. As most of you know, I’m a huge proponent of learning by doing. Of course, before I do anything, I also typically read a shit-ton of books. (All of the ... (more)

Spill It: Are You a Terrible Self-Starter?

From Freelancedom
May 4, 2012 at 1:36 pm
Last week, I headed over to my local library to sit in on a meeting of the Toastmasters Club. When we went around the room to introduce ourselves, I admitted that I was on a panel ... (more)

Top-Notch Marketing Tool: The Panel

From Freelancedom
May 1, 2012 at 10:16 am
This past weekend, I attended the ASJA 2012 Writers Conference, which I had been freaking out about for months. I was invited to speak on a panel about sex writing and, not only ... (more)

Create the Life You Want… Not the One You Think You Should Want

From Freelancedom
April 26, 2012 at 3:46 pm
Almost two weeks ago, I was on the phone with a reporter from a national magazine, talking about solopreneurship and personal branding. We were having a lovely chat — though ... (more)

How To Make Your Marketing Plan as Much Fun as a Glitter Hula Hoop Dance Party

From Freelancedom
April 12, 2012 at 6:21 pm
It’s no secret that publishing houses’ promotional budgets have shrunk, making it necessary for authors to act as their own publicists. Hell, when I was a mid-level ... (more)

How to Make Your Marketing Copy POP!

From Freelancedom
April 6, 2012 at 10:55 am
Despite being a writer — and a writer who once worked her way up the corporate ladder in the marketing department of an academic book publisher, no less — writing effective ... (more)

How It Feels to Write a Book Your Family Will Never Read

From Freelancedom
March 23, 2012 at 4:59 am
With my maiden name! Damn, that's retro. Since I announced my authorial intent at the age of 5, my mom has joked that my first book will be dedicated to her. “To my mother, ... (more)

How an Author Can Be Her Own Own Best Publicist

From Freelancedom
March 20, 2012 at 4:26 am
Blogging buddy and author Brette Sember has about about 40 titles to her name at this point, a number that often serves to make me feel like a lazy-ass bum. Like, what have I been ... (more)

Why You Should Change Your Definition of Success

From Freelancedom
March 13, 2012 at 4:03 am
I started freelancing full-time almost five years ago. At the time, success meant matching my previous income, and saying yes to every project that came my way. As a result, I ... (more)

Spill It: Are You an Emotional Mess After a Major Success?

From Freelancedom
March 6, 2012 at 5:08 pm
When my literary agent first offered me representation the other week, I tried to play it cool. I told her I was thrilled she was so into my book idea. I told her I’d have ... (more)

How To Find The Literary Agent of Your Dreams

From Freelancedom
February 24, 2012 at 3:09 pm
(image via the talented Justin Lowery) Back in November, I shared with you the checklist I used to put together my own book proposal. It contained all the building blocks I’d ... (more)

How To Grow Your Mailing List By Over 100% in Two Weeks

From Freelancedom
February 17, 2012 at 11:45 am
If we all squint really hard, this will start to look like me. Right? I happened into entrepreneurship without anything resembling a business background. What I had instead was ... (more)

How To Be Generous with Your Writing Community

From Freelancedom
February 14, 2012 at 11:58 am
Over at Project Happily Ever After, my blogger-buddy Alisa Bowman wrote a post I’m absolutely smitten with: How to Put the Love Back in Valentine’s Day. In it, she ... (more)

Community: The Crucial Ingredient To Freelance Writing Success

From Freelancedom
February 10, 2012 at 1:38 pm
I like working alone. I prefer fuzzy slippers to pantyhose. And my commute these days is fantastic. But these aren’t the only reasons I chose freelancedom. I’m an ... (more)

Been Writing for Years? You Still Have A Lot to Learn

From Freelancedom
February 3, 2012 at 4:00 am
Many of you already know my writing history. Awful poetry at the age of 5. A part-time gig at a weekly newspaper at the age of 19. Writing sex toy reviews by the age of 22. And ... (more)

How to Get Rid of Query Fear Once and For All

From Freelancedom
January 31, 2012 at 10:53 am
In the five years since I first launched this blog — and in the 1.5 years since I began coaching — I’ve learned a thing or two about the things that can hold ... (more)

I Created a Pinterest Board for Word Nerds Because Why Not?

From Freelancedom
January 24, 2012 at 4:07 pm
I know it seems as if all I do lately is futz around on various social media platforms. But I swear to you. I’m getting shit done. It’s just that… I’m always ... (more)

How To Break Through Your Work Block

From Freelancedom
January 13, 2012 at 2:23 pm
I’ve made a lot of excuses for myself over the past month: I just finished several large projects; I deserve a break. I’m distracted because I’m waiting on responses ... (more)

One Simple Trick for Effective Self-Editing

From Freelancedom
January 11, 2012 at 2:01 pm
On Monday, instead of getting a damn thing done, I took a bus into the city and headed downtown to (Le) Poisson Rouge, where Mike Geffner was hosting Titillating Tongues: NYC Erotica ... (more)

Freelancing and Yoga Go Together Like… Nutella and Pound Cake

From Freelancedom
January 6, 2012 at 4:57 pm
I can't even do the pose pictured on my shirt without falling over. Those of you who have been reading Freelancedom for awhile may have noticed a shift in tone recently. Part ... (more)

One Simple Step To Landing More Work

From Freelancedom
January 4, 2012 at 2:50 pm
As mentioned previously, December always leaves me with a nasty case of Holiday Brain. I’m easily distracted. By twinkle lights. And Christmas cookies. And the DVR. My work ... (more)

Spill It: What’s Your Next Move?

From Freelancedom
December 27, 2011 at 12:30 pm
I’ve never been one to make a fuss out of New Year’s Eve, or to saddle myself with once-a-year resolutions. I reevaluate my goals almost every month, allowing each ... (more)

A Holiday Recipe for Freelance Success

From Freelancedom
December 20, 2011 at 3:54 pm
I've opted not to show you the flour- and batter-spattered countertops. It’s five days until Christmas, and Holiday Brain has reached a fever pitch. Yesterday, I baked ... (more)

The Top 10 Bookmark-Worthy Blog Posts of 2011

From Freelancedom
December 16, 2011 at 4:19 pm
At my last quasi-regular job (permalance editor at an online publication specializing in love- and relationship-related content), the end of the year was always marked by a mad ... (more)